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My Child Doesn’t Fight Back: Should I Teach Them to Hit Back?

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My Child Doesn’t Fight Back: Should I Teach Them to Hit Back? “My child is very weak when it comes to handling problems.” “She doesn’t know what to do when someone pushes her.” “If another child hits my child, she just stands there or starts crying.” Many parents of toddlers and young children worry about this. They wonder whether they should teach their child to “fight back” or whether doing so will make the child aggressive. The answer lies somewhere in between. We do not need to teach children to hit back. We need to teach them how to stand up for themselves. There is a big difference between violence and self-protection , between revenge and self-defense , and between fighting and responding confidently to a difficult situation. When Another Child Pushes or Hits My Child Imagine this situation: Your toddler is sitting in class. Another child comes over, pushes her, and takes her toy. Your child freezes. She doesn't push back. She doesn't say anything. ...
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When Mom Says No and Grandma Says Yes: The Hidden Parenting Battle No One Talks About

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When Mom Says No and Grandma Says Yes: The Hidden Parenting Battle No One Talks About “Mumma said no… but Dadi will say yes.” The day I heard these words from a little child, I realized something. Children are far smarter than we give them credit for. They know exactly who to ask. They know who will melt first. And if we’re being honest, they know how to use the love of every family member to their advantage. Now before anyone misunderstands me, let me say this loud and clear— This is not a blog against grandparents. In fact, I believe children who grow up with loving grandparents are incredibly fortunate. No toy, no expensive vacation, no gadget can replace the warmth of a grandparent’s lap, the bedtime stories, the unconditional love, or the feeling that someone in the house always believes you’re the best person in the world. This blog isn’t about reducing their role. It’s about making their role even more powerful. Because when it comes to raising a child,...
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