It takes a Strong Person to be a Single Parent & take charge of Performing 2 Roles.

It takes a Strong Person to be a Single Parent 
&
 take charge of Performing 2 Roles. 




Girls life is divided into four relations daughter, sister, wife, and mother

When I was born my father treated me like his son, he lovingly used to call me  "Munna" which is used for boys. He tried to fulfill my wishes as well as my demands. But when I was just 6 years old my father expired I had an elder sister of 8 years and a younger brother of 1 year.

My mother was not educated so she couldn't get any white-collar job, she started working at the hospital as Aaya and also used to work at people's houses to fulfill our daily necessities like food and education.

No one was there to take care of my one year brother so my elder sister sacrificed her studies to take care of my brother. 

But when I was in 6th std my sister died as she was suffering from high diabetes.

But as we know life never stops me and my brother growing up. I completed my graduation and started doing the job. I was a very simple girl who just wanted to be a housewife. 

I have never thought of working and finally, I got married I got the love of my life and within 2 loving years I got pregnant and delivered a baby boy.

I was very happy, with the birth of my child  " magar kuch logo ko unki hi nazar lag jati hai". I got to know that my child is having some medical issues so after the birth my child went through surgery he is also a fighter like his mom so he fought and survived.

Yahin pura nahi hota hai, my life took a turn again and I have to take care of my child single-handedly. I tightened my seat belt and tried to give better education to my child.

My marriage didn't work and I decided instead of being embarrassed by my failed marriage and ashamed of being a single mother, I was going to OWN it, being the best mother I can be and giving my child the best life possible.

Having the courage to believe in this, has nothing to do with your relationship status and you don't have to be happily married to have a picture-perfect family.

I didn't set out to be a single mom, I set out to be the best mom I could be... and that hasn't changed.

I went through some medical issues, l went through 5 surgeries and also gone through pre-cancer treatment, my mother was bedridden for around 6 months but I and my son never gave up.

In this process - My Mentor, Amarjyoti Maam has been a great support, in all the ups and downs that came my way. I am very thankful to her...

Now finally I have a small sweet home ( which I own ), yeh mere mehnat ki kamai hai. My son has been a great help throughout my journey and he is in Canada for further studies

Things never change overnight, but if you have confidence on own self, definitely tables will turn one day and things will be in your favor. 

Never lose hope think positive

On, this journey my friends, my colleagues, mine many known people have supported me in my all ups and downs

Here I want to mention a quote that my husband use to say " Insaan kharab nahi hote hai, samay kharab hota hai"

So, Never Blame Anyone For Anything

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