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Things we model for our kids  whether we  know it or no. Basically our children are imitators copycats so whatever we do they copy and especially not the good things, but the   bad things are replicated faster. Bacche sunte nahi hai...... Listen to me..... As parents we mostly struggle to make our children listen to us.  Our greatest problem or issue is to make our children listen and obey to what we say. What to do ??? If we always want our children to listen to us - Generally we command or instruct. Our instruction or command is generally like this -  "Listen to me",  " Why don't you listen to me " ??? Read this sentence again - it says ME and that's were the problem is. Me, Myself and I are wrong words for a healthy conversation. Why ???? Because everyone in this world, may it be toddler, a youngster,  a middle-aged person, everybody struggles to find a listener. Listening shows kids they matter, we love them and their words are very important. A healthy

One size fits all ??? Typical Exam or Assessment Pattern in India Well, as you can see in the above picture there are different animals put in a row and  the teacher is ready for the exam. Subject of the Exam - Tree Climbing. Lets think this way - Keep the picture in mind and think of your child's  school and his  classroom. Exam - Any subject - Students - Teacher All children  are different , they have different likings, behavior , talents etc.. The understanding level, the capacity, the capability of each child is different, but all are same when its exam time.  now lets switch to the picture..... The animals are being told  " its your exam today and for  that, you all have to climb the tree." The fish , elephant , horse etc. all animals have to climb the tree. Grades.... A+ - If you climb it B- if you fall C- if you cannot What do you think, what will be the result of the Fish?? What will be the Fish's Grades?? Obviously - C Now, Pause and think. Is Fish a failure

Behavior Management & Strategies Understanding children and their behavior. Role Model : Parents have to be role models for their children and practice what they preach. For kids of 0 to 6 years, actions speak louder than words. Children observe and learn. For Example: Good morning, if you want your child to say Good morning, rather than always telling or instructing the child, you as a parent, say it always automatically it will be noticed by the child. Some children tend to notice and implement fast a few take some time, and few won't but in any case, nagging will not help.  Children who talk at home have a feeling of ownership. They feel that “the kingdom is mine.”  Children are individuals and have a nature and personality of their own. Children should be heard when they speak. Respect even a two-year-old child. Attend them if you want to be attended by them later. Types of behavior seen in children of  0 to 6 years. Children interrupt when people talk. That is because pare